My Dashain Was Like This In Previous Dashain Many people celebrate Dashain because it is a custom to tie tika from the hands of their relatives and their parents, as it is a great festival as soon as Dashain is called. I think that if your family is happy like many on Dashain, others will be happy too, but Dashain is such a thing that this moment seems to be very fun. But I also thought that it would not be because the moment was fun.
It is also because many people have a tradition of going to their relatives on Dashain and taking blessings. I think that if someone is my relative, it will be enough if they have the blessing and support of my father and mother. Others are others. If others are happy when they get vaccinated, they are just as happy.
When I was a kid, it seemed like a lot of fun, and I was fulfilling my wishes and happiness in many things, and with my mother’s support, I have come this far. Whenever I say to wear Dashain tika, my father starts crying, but I don’t know why. the
Now I’m all grown up. It’s almost 30 years now, and it’s not quite 30 years, but it’s about to be. A lot of things are playing in my mind, and I am only writing this to express my thoughts. Because many people are happy during Dashain, they celebrate Dashain people.
During Dashain, like many people, my father is angry and gets angry if what he says doesn’t happen, so I don’t feel like it’s fun during Dashain, and even if I hang out with my friends, I don’t have any friends at the moment. Dashain has been a lot of fun right from childhood when I was in school. And I thought in my heart that I would do this after going home, but it turned out to be different from what I thought.
As soon as it is time to wear the Tika on Dashain, Dashain seems to be good because it is customary to go to the mother’s in-law’s house and wear the Tika from the hands of Mama and Mahiju. As soon as I see Mahiju’s behavior, she has good thoughts and says bad things. He doesn’t know; I think he doesn’t know how happy his nephew is and how nice will be when he comes to his house.
As I grew older, I began to understand many things, and I have only put this here because of hearing and understanding many people. Many people also cut meat and eat sheep meat during Dashain.
Sometimes Dashain seems to be very fun, and sometimes it looks as if Dashain is very sad for me, but I never feel that when Dashain comes, I feel very happy. Whatever I thought, it was a change in something else.
Even now, many things are playing in my mind, thinking about going here and there during Dashain, and because it doesn’t happen according to my thoughts, I think that Dashain is also what it is. Remembering the past and reminiscing about the past brings a very pleasant moment, and the pleasant moment has passed. Now, when you grow up, you will only remember all the things.
I don’t like taking criticism from other people, but if my parents bless me well, then I am very happy, and they must understand what my son does and what my son says. My mother understands everything, and my father should not even try to understand what his son is doing and what he is thinking of doing.
Maybe if people get a lot of happiness in their family as soon as they say Dashain, that’s enough for me, but when they say Dashain, they don’t buy clothes. During Dashain, many people celebrate because it is a custom to wear nice clothes to go to other people’s houses and take tika from there and receive money from them.
Because I used to walk with my father like many people, sometimes the memories of my father come to me, but because of his anger and crying, I feel bad about those moments, why does he do this to Dashain and always cry on Dashain and fight with his son and daughter? And I think what is the use of fighting?
The father may indeed have his own practicality, but even if he is practical, it seems that he should not shout like that even on a festival like Dashain. It is also necessary for him to understand what the benefit of crying is and how much pain and difficulty it causes to the listeners.
Dashain comes and goes from today to tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, and Dashain also comes and goes, but I think it is a little bit inappropriate to shout like that even on a festival like Dashain. I feel that Dashain should be celebrated as it is and that one should not work on loans from others and celebrate Dashain with as much money as one has, and I think that it is right.
